This story is about a lady who was in love with this guy and the guy was a player. He always claimed to love her, but was always cheating on her and she was aware of it. Whenever her friends told her of him cheating on her, she always defended him. She said proudly that even if she got pregnant, that the guy was willing to marry her. She finally got pregnant and the guy gave reasons why she should not keep it and he was not ready to get married. He said he was still in school and could not bear the responsibility of fathering a child. Finally, she aborted the child.
Points:
1) She was in love with the guy, but he was a player.
2) She knew he was a player, but she always defended him
3) She was proud to get pregnant for the guy, but the guy was not responsible
4) He gave reasons for not fathering a child
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Are you willing to Love and be Loved by the right and responsible person?
Lessons: guys and ladies can do or say things to get what they want. You will have to decide for yourself what you really want. Please if you get pregnant when you are not ready, it doesn't mean you have to abort it, or get married. Don't be rushed into something that you might likely regret for the rest of your life.
Love is kind. Therefore, a person that is kind will not want anything wrong or bad to happen to his or her partner.
Sex is good in marriage with your spouse only, outside of this, sex has destroyed homes, families, friends, communities, etc. It can bring about unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, Hiv/Aids,etc.
With God's Grace, Mercy And Precaution, You Can Abstain.
Remember:
Love is Kind, not sex
Abstinence is better
Condoms break, even the expensive ones
Even the "Pros" get pregnant or get ladies pregnant
Contraceptives used after a stipulated time cannot work and sometimes might be fake
Yes You Can:
Abstain
Love and Be Loved
Kind
Gracias
