There was a certain girl that met this tall, dark and handsome guy.The guy dressed well and was rich, she fell in love with him at first sight.She tried giving him green lights, they met and exchanged numbers.After three days of calls and textings, they hung out together and had sex.The guy started exhibiting his true character, he disrespected her by, abusing her physically and emotionally.She thought that he was going to change, but he got worse. He embarrassed her at any opportunity, he flirted with ladies openly and he beat her regularly.She was in love and said to herself, that he loved her, hence the reason for the constant discipline.
Points:
1) She met a handsome guy who was rich
2) They had sex after three days
3) He started maltreating her
4) Was she truely in love?
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Are you truely in love?
Are you truely in lust?
Lessons: Love is kind, patient, not rude or boastful or proud or irritable.Love does not demand its own way. Sometimes, we are attracted to people that are detrimental to us and we think they might change.It is only if the person is willing, that is when the person can change.Having sex clouds ones judgdement most times.
A destructive relationship leaves you damaged and it takes God's Grace and rehabilitation to get back to oneself.
Please evaluate yourself now to know if you are in love or in lust? Check if your partner is in love or in lust or is just an opportunist?
Read each of the characteristics of Love, on our previous posts.
Programs. For Next Week:
2alkaboutit For Secondary Schools
Parent's Forum: This aims to bridge the communication gap between parents and children.
Theme: Can we talk about sex?
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