Love Can Be Hard
I remember I was hurt by someone dear to me, the person hurt me so much that I was living but frustrated.I built a defence wall around me that no one could penetrate.It just made me cranky,proud and obnoxious.I had to learn how to forgive,but this happened when I became born-again, but to forget was a no go area for me.I would try to forget and I would remember all the evil acts the person had committed.I had to really ask myself if I had forgiven and forgotten.
Truthfully, I have forgiven, but I have not fogotten fully.I am sincerely asking God to help me.
Points:
1) I was hurt by someone dear to me
2) I was Living but frustrated
3) I built a defence wall around me
4) I learnt how to forgive, but was still hard to forget
5) I am working hard on forgetting the hurt, by God's grace
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Do you forgive people?
Do you forget the wrong doings of others?
Are you working to get better?
Lessons: Love does not keep records of wrong.Yes, it can be very hard, but this can limit our performance, because we might form a defence mechanism.
We need to know that God has forgiven and forgotten our evil acts, and we also are not perfect beings.
Yes You Can:
Forgive
Forget
Love
Gracias