This is an incident that occurred very recently.There are two very close friends, one is engaged, the other is married.
On this fateful day in their room, the lady that was married woke up in the middle of the night, she could not breathe well and she could not sleep.There was a third person in the room that was praying, she gave her a drug to take to relieve her breathing problem and she continued praying.
The lady that is engaged woke up and saw her friend not breathing well.She stood up, went beside her and prayed for her. After a while, she started breathing well and she slept off.
Points:
1) The two ladies are close
2) The third person in the room gave her a drug to relieve her breathing problem
3) Her very close friend prayed for her
Questions You Need To Ask Yourself:
Who are your friends?
Do they influence you positively or negatively?
Are your friends willing to sacrifice for you?
Are they just friends for fun, party and gist?
The Truth Is Your Life And The Outcome Of Your Life Is Important In The Fulfillment Of Purpose.Therefore,
You must choose your friends Wisely
You must not be sentimental in making your choice of a friend
You need friends that will stick close to you
You need friends that Love you and will always tell you the truth
You need friends that can sacrifice
A proverb Says: A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly; and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.This means that you have to be friendly yourself and you cannot have too many friends.
For you to have a friend that has these characteristics, then you must be a Good friend yourself.
For example, I tell my friends that I should be able to tell them if I have done something wrong, they will correct me and still love me.
I know it is sometimes hard to trust or find good friends, you need good friends.but you have to be a good friend yourself, then you will find those you can call good friends.
Please even if people betray you, keep on Doing good.The reward is enormous.
Yes You Can:
Be A Good Friend
Be A Loving Friend
Be A Prayerful Friend
Be A Helpful Friend
Be An Impactful Friend
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Thursday, 24 January 2013
Naivety Of A Girl
This is the story of a girl from a broken home, she had the free will to go out. She met this guy at an eatery in Ikeja.This guy was with his two friends,he was dark, handsome and tall. She thought he was someone she knew, but she was wrong, they exchanged numbers and he left.
The next thing, she received a call from the guy asking if she had left the eatery and he asked her if she could visit him at his place. She did not go that day, but she went on a weekend.
He tried to play as a nice host, they talked about business, family etc. The guy took the lady to his room, and the discussion changed to " Let's Have Sex". She resisted and said No, he now said Let's have something close to sex and she eventually agreed.
She left his house feeling very guilty and empty inside her. She never went there again.
Points:
1) She should have left the guy immediately at the eatery when she realised he was not someone she knew.
2) There was no need to exchange numbers
3) She should have spoken to a wise and elderly person about the guy.
4) There was no need to go to his house, enter his room.
Lessons: A girl from a broken may have more liberty to do things or go out.the girl child might feel lonely,may be in desperate need of Love,Acceptanace And Selfworth.
This can be channelled into going to wrong places, meeting the wrong people and getting engaged in the wrong activities.
Therefore, instead of feeling better, you get temporary excitement or pleasure, leaving you with the feeling of being empty. Then overtime your heart gets hardened and you don't send.
Also, sometimes there is really no one you can talk to, your parents are seperated or divorced,everybody is busy with their own activities.You are left with the option of talking to your peers or making a decision.
Despite the fact that you are from a broken home, The Truth Is:
As a girl,you can make the right the decision concerning any issue
You can follow the right friends
You can go to the right places
You can be involved in the right activities
The question is now, how,why, when and where?
Watch Out For My Next Article.
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The next thing, she received a call from the guy asking if she had left the eatery and he asked her if she could visit him at his place. She did not go that day, but she went on a weekend.
He tried to play as a nice host, they talked about business, family etc. The guy took the lady to his room, and the discussion changed to " Let's Have Sex". She resisted and said No, he now said Let's have something close to sex and she eventually agreed.
She left his house feeling very guilty and empty inside her. She never went there again.
Points:
1) She should have left the guy immediately at the eatery when she realised he was not someone she knew.
2) There was no need to exchange numbers
3) She should have spoken to a wise and elderly person about the guy.
4) There was no need to go to his house, enter his room.
Lessons: A girl from a broken may have more liberty to do things or go out.the girl child might feel lonely,may be in desperate need of Love,Acceptanace And Selfworth.
This can be channelled into going to wrong places, meeting the wrong people and getting engaged in the wrong activities.
Therefore, instead of feeling better, you get temporary excitement or pleasure, leaving you with the feeling of being empty. Then overtime your heart gets hardened and you don't send.
Also, sometimes there is really no one you can talk to, your parents are seperated or divorced,everybody is busy with their own activities.You are left with the option of talking to your peers or making a decision.
Despite the fact that you are from a broken home, The Truth Is:
As a girl,you can make the right the decision concerning any issue
You can follow the right friends
You can go to the right places
You can be involved in the right activities
The question is now, how,why, when and where?
Watch Out For My Next Article.
Please feel free to comment, ask questions, seek advice, send me a story, share this story to your family and friends and.You can also share your testimonies.
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