This is the story of a Nigerian guy who lived in London with his wife and children. He had problems with immigration, so he came back to Nigeria. He then met a lady whom he liked and they became close. He started taking her out and showering her with expensive gifts and he introduced her to his family.
He wanted more intimacy and he was not getting it. He complained that she was not having sex with him and he had invested in their relationship. She told him to be patient until they got married and he said that it was not possible. She later found out that he had a family in london.
Points:
1) He got close to a lady, but he wanted sex
2) She told him to be patient until they were married
3) She found out that he was married with children in London
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Are you living a life of lies?
Do you want to eat your cake and also have it?
Lessons: Love is about being open to the other person.Love compromises, you must not have your way with everything.This will save us from our broken relationships and marriages.
You need to look beyond your want and take into perspective the other person's feelings. For example, guys you don't have to force yourself on a lady to have sex with you.
Yes You Can:
Be Open
Be Truthful
Be Considerate
Programs Coming Up:
2alkaboutit Parent's Forum Is Coming Up Next Weekend. It aims to bridge the communication gap between parents and their children.
Theme: Can we talk about sex?
Please,What did your parents tell you about sex? Please send me a mail: Tosinfatung@gmail.com
