Thursday, 14 February 2013
A Love Poem
You are my blessing
You will ever remain the reason
For my every season
I pray to always be pleasing
And never abusing
to you my blessing
You are my treasure
To my life you've brought pleasure
And taken away every pressure
Now life has become a leisure
So much that I can't measure
your worth oh my treasure!
You are my love song
One I'll always have on my tongue
Now and all life long
For times when I'm strong
And times when I'm wrong
cos it's you I belong
written by: dr moyo ekundayo
to his love:dr blessing agbaje
Tuesday, 12 February 2013
Love Can Be Hard
Love Can Be Hard
I remember I was hurt by someone dear to me, the person hurt me so much that I was living but frustrated.I built a defence wall around me that no one could penetrate.It just made me cranky,proud and obnoxious.I had to learn how to forgive,but this happened when I became born-again, but to forget was a no go area for me.I would try to forget and I would remember all the evil acts the person had committed.I had to really ask myself if I had forgiven and forgotten.
Truthfully, I have forgiven, but I have not fogotten fully.I am sincerely asking God to help me.
Points:
1) I was hurt by someone dear to me
2) I was Living but frustrated
3) I built a defence wall around me
4) I learnt how to forgive, but was still hard to forget
5) I am working hard on forgetting the hurt, by God's grace
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Do you forgive people?
Do you forget the wrong doings of others?
Are you working to get better?
Lessons: Love does not keep records of wrong.Yes, it can be very hard, but this can limit our performance, because we might form a defence mechanism.
We need to know that God has forgiven and forgotten our evil acts, and we also are not perfect beings.
Yes You Can:
Forgive
Forget
Love
Gracias
I remember I was hurt by someone dear to me, the person hurt me so much that I was living but frustrated.I built a defence wall around me that no one could penetrate.It just made me cranky,proud and obnoxious.I had to learn how to forgive,but this happened when I became born-again, but to forget was a no go area for me.I would try to forget and I would remember all the evil acts the person had committed.I had to really ask myself if I had forgiven and forgotten.
Truthfully, I have forgiven, but I have not fogotten fully.I am sincerely asking God to help me.
Points:
1) I was hurt by someone dear to me
2) I was Living but frustrated
3) I built a defence wall around me
4) I learnt how to forgive, but was still hard to forget
5) I am working hard on forgetting the hurt, by God's grace
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Do you forgive people?
Do you forget the wrong doings of others?
Are you working to get better?
Lessons: Love does not keep records of wrong.Yes, it can be very hard, but this can limit our performance, because we might form a defence mechanism.
We need to know that God has forgiven and forgotten our evil acts, and we also are not perfect beings.
Yes You Can:
Forgive
Forget
Love
Gracias
Monday, 11 February 2013
Love And Injustice
This happened some weeks ago, when a young female student was gang raped and injured severly in her country.She tried to resist them, but they overpowered her. She also inflicted some injuries on them.She was thrown out of the vehicle in a terrible state and was rushed to the hospital where she died after a few days, due to severe injuries.
This incident caused an uproar in the country especially by students.They wanted justice to the men that committed the heinous act.They wanted more severe laws protecting their women against abuse and rape.This caught the attention of the whole world.The suspects were arrested and their trial in court began.
Points:
1) A young female student was gang raped.
2) She was injured severly
3) She later died
4) This caused an uproar in the country
5) This caught the attention of the whole world
6) The suspects were brought into custody and they were tried
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Are you unjust?
Do you indulge in evil practices?
Do you cover up evil?
Have you ever raped anyone?
Lessons: Love is beautiful.It does not rejoice about injustice, but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.
Rape is a very terrible act.It affects and may destroy the life of the victim.This applies to other cases of evil acts.The truth should be said always and those found guilty of their crimes should be allowed to go through trial and be punished as required by the law.
Love is about saying the truth at all times, caring for others and being responsible for your actions.Never cover up any evil and do not carry out any evil act.
Yes You Can:
Love
Be Loved
Be Just
Be Truthful
Programs Coming Up This Week:
2alkaboutit for secondary school students
2alkaboutit Parent's Forum,
Theme: Can we talk about sex?
Date: Saturday, 16th February, 2013.
Time: 12:30pm-2:30pm prompt.
Venue: Destiny Hall, Lagos University Teaching Hospital, Idi-Araba.
Host: Pharm.Oluwatosin Fatungase
Please for more information, call: 08075304034
Gracias
This incident caused an uproar in the country especially by students.They wanted justice to the men that committed the heinous act.They wanted more severe laws protecting their women against abuse and rape.This caught the attention of the whole world.The suspects were arrested and their trial in court began.
Points:
1) A young female student was gang raped.
2) She was injured severly
3) She later died
4) This caused an uproar in the country
5) This caught the attention of the whole world
6) The suspects were brought into custody and they were tried
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Are you unjust?
Do you indulge in evil practices?
Do you cover up evil?
Have you ever raped anyone?
Lessons: Love is beautiful.It does not rejoice about injustice, but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.
Rape is a very terrible act.It affects and may destroy the life of the victim.This applies to other cases of evil acts.The truth should be said always and those found guilty of their crimes should be allowed to go through trial and be punished as required by the law.
Love is about saying the truth at all times, caring for others and being responsible for your actions.Never cover up any evil and do not carry out any evil act.
Yes You Can:
Love
Be Loved
Be Just
Be Truthful
Programs Coming Up This Week:
2alkaboutit for secondary school students
2alkaboutit Parent's Forum,
Theme: Can we talk about sex?
Date: Saturday, 16th February, 2013.
Time: 12:30pm-2:30pm prompt.
Venue: Destiny Hall, Lagos University Teaching Hospital, Idi-Araba.
Host: Pharm.Oluwatosin Fatungase
Please for more information, call: 08075304034
Gracias
Sunday, 10 February 2013
Super Eagles Love Story
This is a love story of a football team, whom against all odds proved that Love still exists.In the beginning, they were criticized and mocked, but they had one Vision, to bring back the trophy to their beloved country, Nigeria.It was difficult for them to believe in this Vision, because there was no external motivation, but they continued to practice. They believed in themselves and they worked hard, day and night.
The first hurdle was the qualifiers match of the African Cup Of Nations, and they actually qualified.People were a little bit suprised, but still did not expect much from them.
The African Cup Of Nations Started and they did averagely well at the beginning, but there was still no encouragement and support from their people.They moved to the quarter finals, where they met a team with top football players in the world.The world thought that this was the end for the super eagles, but they proved us wrong again, they scored two goals. The story changed from this point.
People started supporting the team, blood was now supposed to be green as a sign of Loyalty to the team.They did extremely well at the semi-finals, they scored four goals.At the finals, people expressed their love in diverse ways, prayers, delegates and messages were sent to them.
Finally, on the tenth of February 2013, they showed the whole world their Love towards Nigeria by winning the trophy, despite the trials and criticisms.Nigerians were proud to be raise the trophy after nineteen years.The Super Eagles did not give up on Nigeria even when we gave up on them.Two of our team members won awards such as "The Most Valuable Player" and "The Highest Goal Scorer".The beautiful thing is that, they worked hard as a team and they were thankful to God.This is true Love.
Points:
1) They love Nigeria
2) They did not give up on Nigeria
3) They believed in themselves
4) They worked hard and they brought back the trophy
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Do you Love people?
Do you Love your country?
Do you believe in yourself?
Do you give up on people?
Lessons: Super eagles showed us what love is.They did not give up on us, even when we did not support and encourage them.This means that, Love Is Selfless.
Yes You Can:
Love People
Believe In People
Programs Holding This Week:
2alkaboutit For Secondary School Students
2alkaboutit Parents Forum.
Date: Saturday, 16th February, 2013
Venue: Destiny Hall, Luth Idi-Araba, Lagos.
Time: 12:30pm-2:30pm Prompt
Register Now: send your name, email address, phone number and occupation to, 08075304034
Gracias
The first hurdle was the qualifiers match of the African Cup Of Nations, and they actually qualified.People were a little bit suprised, but still did not expect much from them.
The African Cup Of Nations Started and they did averagely well at the beginning, but there was still no encouragement and support from their people.They moved to the quarter finals, where they met a team with top football players in the world.The world thought that this was the end for the super eagles, but they proved us wrong again, they scored two goals. The story changed from this point.
People started supporting the team, blood was now supposed to be green as a sign of Loyalty to the team.They did extremely well at the semi-finals, they scored four goals.At the finals, people expressed their love in diverse ways, prayers, delegates and messages were sent to them.
Finally, on the tenth of February 2013, they showed the whole world their Love towards Nigeria by winning the trophy, despite the trials and criticisms.Nigerians were proud to be raise the trophy after nineteen years.The Super Eagles did not give up on Nigeria even when we gave up on them.Two of our team members won awards such as "The Most Valuable Player" and "The Highest Goal Scorer".The beautiful thing is that, they worked hard as a team and they were thankful to God.This is true Love.
Points:
1) They love Nigeria
2) They did not give up on Nigeria
3) They believed in themselves
4) They worked hard and they brought back the trophy
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Do you Love people?
Do you Love your country?
Do you believe in yourself?
Do you give up on people?
Lessons: Super eagles showed us what love is.They did not give up on us, even when we did not support and encourage them.This means that, Love Is Selfless.
Yes You Can:
Love People
Believe In People
Programs Holding This Week:
2alkaboutit For Secondary School Students
2alkaboutit Parents Forum.
Date: Saturday, 16th February, 2013
Venue: Destiny Hall, Luth Idi-Araba, Lagos.
Time: 12:30pm-2:30pm Prompt
Register Now: send your name, email address, phone number and occupation to, 08075304034
Gracias
Saturday, 9 February 2013
Are You In Love?
There was a certain girl that met this tall, dark and handsome guy.The guy dressed well and was rich, she fell in love with him at first sight.She tried giving him green lights, they met and exchanged numbers.After three days of calls and textings, they hung out together and had sex.The guy started exhibiting his true character, he disrespected her by, abusing her physically and emotionally.She thought that he was going to change, but he got worse. He embarrassed her at any opportunity, he flirted with ladies openly and he beat her regularly.She was in love and said to herself, that he loved her, hence the reason for the constant discipline.
Points:
1) She met a handsome guy who was rich
2) They had sex after three days
3) He started maltreating her
4) Was she truely in love?
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Are you truely in love?
Are you truely in lust?
Lessons: Love is kind, patient, not rude or boastful or proud or irritable.Love does not demand its own way. Sometimes, we are attracted to people that are detrimental to us and we think they might change.It is only if the person is willing, that is when the person can change.Having sex clouds ones judgdement most times.
A destructive relationship leaves you damaged and it takes God's Grace and rehabilitation to get back to oneself.
Please evaluate yourself now to know if you are in love or in lust? Check if your partner is in love or in lust or is just an opportunist?
Read each of the characteristics of Love, on our previous posts.
Programs. For Next Week:
2alkaboutit For Secondary Schools
Parent's Forum: This aims to bridge the communication gap between parents and children.
Theme: Can we talk about sex?
Twitter:@oluwatosinfatun
Facebook: Oluwatosin Fatungase
Gracias
Points:
1) She met a handsome guy who was rich
2) They had sex after three days
3) He started maltreating her
4) Was she truely in love?
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Are you truely in love?
Are you truely in lust?
Lessons: Love is kind, patient, not rude or boastful or proud or irritable.Love does not demand its own way. Sometimes, we are attracted to people that are detrimental to us and we think they might change.It is only if the person is willing, that is when the person can change.Having sex clouds ones judgdement most times.
A destructive relationship leaves you damaged and it takes God's Grace and rehabilitation to get back to oneself.
Please evaluate yourself now to know if you are in love or in lust? Check if your partner is in love or in lust or is just an opportunist?
Read each of the characteristics of Love, on our previous posts.
Programs. For Next Week:
2alkaboutit For Secondary Schools
Parent's Forum: This aims to bridge the communication gap between parents and children.
Theme: Can we talk about sex?
Twitter:@oluwatosinfatun
Facebook: Oluwatosin Fatungase
Gracias
Friday, 8 February 2013
Love Is Not Irritable
There was a lady from a disturbed family who had problems communicating with people due to her background.She was proud, impolite, arrogrant, she easily got irritated and angry.She met this guy who was cool, calm and collected.They became good friends and after sometime, they started a relationship.
Later, he could not handle her behavior and he ended the relationship.
Points:
1) She was from a disturbed home which led to her having communication problems
2) She was proud, angry, arrogant and irritable.
3) She got into a relationship with a cool guy
4) He could not handle her behavior and this led to the end of the relationship
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Do you get angry easily?
Do you get irritated easily?
Are you willing to work on your character flaws?
What efforts are you making towards changing for good?
Lessons: Love attracts people.Everyone wants to be around a person that is warm, caring and loving.People avoid irritable or angry people.When you are irritable, you send the wrong signals, and you might send good people away from you.
When you have a character flaw such as this, first of all, accept that you have it.You have to get books, listen to messages and attend seminars that teach on overcoming this flaw. You have to make conscious efforts by vocalizing the positive character you want.
Yes You Can:
Be Loving
Be Caring
Be Warm
Programs Coming Up Next Week:
2alkaboutit for secondary schools.
2alkaboutit Parent's Forum Is Happening Next Weekend.
Theme: Can we talk about sex?
Gracias
Later, he could not handle her behavior and he ended the relationship.
Points:
1) She was from a disturbed home which led to her having communication problems
2) She was proud, angry, arrogant and irritable.
3) She got into a relationship with a cool guy
4) He could not handle her behavior and this led to the end of the relationship
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Do you get angry easily?
Do you get irritated easily?
Are you willing to work on your character flaws?
What efforts are you making towards changing for good?
Lessons: Love attracts people.Everyone wants to be around a person that is warm, caring and loving.People avoid irritable or angry people.When you are irritable, you send the wrong signals, and you might send good people away from you.
When you have a character flaw such as this, first of all, accept that you have it.You have to get books, listen to messages and attend seminars that teach on overcoming this flaw. You have to make conscious efforts by vocalizing the positive character you want.
Yes You Can:
Be Loving
Be Caring
Be Warm
Programs Coming Up Next Week:
2alkaboutit for secondary schools.
2alkaboutit Parent's Forum Is Happening Next Weekend.
Theme: Can we talk about sex?
Gracias
Thursday, 7 February 2013
Love Does Not Demand Its Own Way
This is the story of a Nigerian guy who lived in London with his wife and children. He had problems with immigration, so he came back to Nigeria. He then met a lady whom he liked and they became close. He started taking her out and showering her with expensive gifts and he introduced her to his family.
He wanted more intimacy and he was not getting it. He complained that she was not having sex with him and he had invested in their relationship. She told him to be patient until they got married and he said that it was not possible. She later found out that he had a family in london.
Points:
1) He got close to a lady, but he wanted sex
2) She told him to be patient until they were married
3) She found out that he was married with children in London
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Are you living a life of lies?
Do you want to eat your cake and also have it?
Lessons: Love is about being open to the other person.Love compromises, you must not have your way with everything.This will save us from our broken relationships and marriages.
You need to look beyond your want and take into perspective the other person's feelings. For example, guys you don't have to force yourself on a lady to have sex with you.
Yes You Can:
Be Open
Be Truthful
Be Considerate
Programs Coming Up:
2alkaboutit Parent's Forum Is Coming Up Next Weekend. It aims to bridge the communication gap between parents and their children.
Theme: Can we talk about sex?
Please,What did your parents tell you about sex? Please send me a mail: Tosinfatung@gmail.com
He wanted more intimacy and he was not getting it. He complained that she was not having sex with him and he had invested in their relationship. She told him to be patient until they got married and he said that it was not possible. She later found out that he had a family in london.
Points:
1) He got close to a lady, but he wanted sex
2) She told him to be patient until they were married
3) She found out that he was married with children in London
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Are you living a life of lies?
Do you want to eat your cake and also have it?
Lessons: Love is about being open to the other person.Love compromises, you must not have your way with everything.This will save us from our broken relationships and marriages.
You need to look beyond your want and take into perspective the other person's feelings. For example, guys you don't have to force yourself on a lady to have sex with you.
Yes You Can:
Be Open
Be Truthful
Be Considerate
Programs Coming Up:
2alkaboutit Parent's Forum Is Coming Up Next Weekend. It aims to bridge the communication gap between parents and their children.
Theme: Can we talk about sex?
Please,What did your parents tell you about sex? Please send me a mail: Tosinfatung@gmail.com
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