Playboy, So What?

A young handsome man was known by people as a playboy.He was proud about it, and the ladies kept on flocking around him, but he told his friend on a particular day, how it all started.

He was from a wealthy home and his parents were never at home most of the time.He was practically raised by the househelp.He hardly saw his parents, they leave the house early in the morning and get back home late in the night when he will be asleep.

The househelp was a 27year old lady.She allowed him to watch any kind of movie, especially pornographic movies. She told him that they can practice what they watched and she would teach him what to do. He was just 7years old when he had his first sexual experience.

She taught him a lot and he enjoyed it.This continued until she got married and left the house. He started sleeping with girls in his class, but they were not experienced. He moved to sleeping with his seniors.This continued until he got to the university.

He enjoyed his fame and wealth. He did not care about anything else, he was enjoying himself.In his final year, he got very sick and they carried out HIV test on him and he was positive.He felt the world crashing at his feet. He blamed his parents for been too busy, the househelp for the exposure to sex and himself for not seeking help.

Points:

1) He had his first sexual experience with the househelp at the age of 7.

2) His sexual appetite grew and when the househelp left, he started sleeping with different girls.

Questions To Ask Yourself:

Are you been influenced by your past?

What efforts are you taking to become better?

Lessons: We are from different backgrounds and this might influence our actions.We should avoid the same mistakes our
parents made.We have to do this by taking conscious efforts.

A child exposed to sex and its vices affects ones life.The truth is you can choose to make its impact positive or negative, if its negative, seek good and proper counsel.

Remember, there is no challenge that you cannot overcome.The first step is for you to seek good counsel from a professional.

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