This story is about a lady who was in love with this guy and the guy was a player. He always claimed to love her, but was always cheating on her and she was aware of it. Whenever her friends told her of him cheating on her, she always defended him. She said proudly that even if she got pregnant, that the guy was willing to marry her. She finally got pregnant and the guy gave reasons why she should not keep it and he was not ready to get married. He said he was still in school and could not bear the responsibility of fathering a child. Finally, she aborted the child.
Points:
1) She was in love with the guy, but he was a player.
2) She knew he was a player, but she always defended him
3) She was proud to get pregnant for the guy, but the guy was not responsible
4) He gave reasons for not fathering a child
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Are you willing to Love and be Loved by the right and responsible person?
Lessons: guys and ladies can do or say things to get what they want. You will have to decide for yourself what you really want. Please if you get pregnant when you are not ready, it doesn't mean you have to abort it, or get married. Don't be rushed into something that you might likely regret for the rest of your life.
Love is kind. Therefore, a person that is kind will not want anything wrong or bad to happen to his or her partner.
Sex is good in marriage with your spouse only, outside of this, sex has destroyed homes, families, friends, communities, etc. It can bring about unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, Hiv/Aids,etc.
With God's Grace, Mercy And Precaution, You Can Abstain.
Remember:
Love is Kind, not sex
Abstinence is better
Condoms break, even the expensive ones
Even the "Pros" get pregnant or get ladies pregnant
Contraceptives used after a stipulated time cannot work and sometimes might be fake
Yes You Can:
Abstain
Love and Be Loved
Kind
Gracias
Sunday, 3 February 2013
Saturday, 2 February 2013
Sex Is Not Patient
"I need to have sex with you, that way I can express my love to you". This was the statement by a guy to his girlfriend and she always said, "if you love me, you will wait for me". He replied, "I love you, but I can't keep my hands off you". He said that they were going to be married soon, so she should loosen up.
Points:
1) The guy wanted to have sex with her as a means of expressing his love to her
2) She said that if he loved her, he would wait for her.
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Is sex worth waiting for till marriage?
Am I ready for the consequences of having sex outside of marriage?
Lessons: Guys tell ladies to have sex with them as a means of expressing their love to them. A lady is more emotional, so when she indulges in sex, she gets attached to the guy, but it is not really so for the man.
Sex is for your spouse only. Some guys even use the idea of engaging a lady as a means of having sex with her. While some ladies trap men with pregnancies.
Therefore, please be patient. Love Is Patient. When you love someone, you will wait and handle with care.
It is easy with God's Grace, Mercy and Precaution.
Yes You Can:
Be patient till you are married before engaging in sex.
Sex is just for your spouse!
2alkaboutit's Parents Forum Coming Soon :It aims to bridge the gap communication between parents and their children.
Gracias
Points:
1) The guy wanted to have sex with her as a means of expressing his love to her
2) She said that if he loved her, he would wait for her.
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Is sex worth waiting for till marriage?
Am I ready for the consequences of having sex outside of marriage?
Lessons: Guys tell ladies to have sex with them as a means of expressing their love to them. A lady is more emotional, so when she indulges in sex, she gets attached to the guy, but it is not really so for the man.
Sex is for your spouse only. Some guys even use the idea of engaging a lady as a means of having sex with her. While some ladies trap men with pregnancies.
Therefore, please be patient. Love Is Patient. When you love someone, you will wait and handle with care.
It is easy with God's Grace, Mercy and Precaution.
Yes You Can:
Be patient till you are married before engaging in sex.
Sex is just for your spouse!
2alkaboutit's Parents Forum Coming Soon :It aims to bridge the gap communication between parents and their children.
Gracias
Friday, 1 February 2013
Is Sex Truely Love?
I know of a lady who ran away from every guy that wanted to sleep with her.She always said that, that kind of guy does not respect her and he must be selfish, even though the guy might have claimed that he loved her.For example,any guy she meets and he starts behaving funny like ,inviting her to his house, trying to touch her unnecessarily and asking her for sex.
Points:
1) She ran away from every guy that wanted to have sex with her
2) It did not matter if the guy claimed that he loved her
Questions To Ask Yourself?
Is sex truely Love?
Can you do without having sex, except when you are married to your spouse?
Indulging in sex outside marriage, have you gained or lost more?
Can sex complete your needs?
Lessons: I know that Sex is something that everyone is interested in.It should be done when married and with your spouse only.Having sex outside of this has broken families, friends, communities, etc. Not everyone is doing it.It can be hard, but with God's Grace, Mercy and Precaution, it can be easy to abstain.
Yes You Can:
Abstain from having sex till you are married
Do without cheating on your spouse
Love 100%
Quotes
LOVE
Is Patient and Kind
Is Not jealous or boastful or proud or rude
It does not demand its own way
Not irritable and it keeps no record of being wronged
It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out
Never gives up
Never loses faith
Is always hopeful
Endures through every circumstance
Three things will last forever, Faith,Hope and Love- and the greatest of these is Love
2alkaboutit for Parents is coming up this month.More information will be passed across tomorrow.
Gracias
Points:
1) She ran away from every guy that wanted to have sex with her
2) It did not matter if the guy claimed that he loved her
Questions To Ask Yourself?
Is sex truely Love?
Can you do without having sex, except when you are married to your spouse?
Indulging in sex outside marriage, have you gained or lost more?
Can sex complete your needs?
Lessons: I know that Sex is something that everyone is interested in.It should be done when married and with your spouse only.Having sex outside of this has broken families, friends, communities, etc. Not everyone is doing it.It can be hard, but with God's Grace, Mercy and Precaution, it can be easy to abstain.
Yes You Can:
Abstain from having sex till you are married
Do without cheating on your spouse
Love 100%
Quotes
LOVE
Is Patient and Kind
Is Not jealous or boastful or proud or rude
It does not demand its own way
Not irritable and it keeps no record of being wronged
It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out
Never gives up
Never loses faith
Is always hopeful
Endures through every circumstance
Three things will last forever, Faith,Hope and Love- and the greatest of these is Love
2alkaboutit for Parents is coming up this month.More information will be passed across tomorrow.
Gracias
Thursday, 31 January 2013
Write The Vision
2alkaboutitThis is a story of a guy who was from a poor background.He went to public primary and secondary schools.He had the best WAEC result in his school.He wrote down his Vision and he constantly looked at it.He was determined to be successful.
He wanted to help and impact young people.He worked, prepared, planned and partnered with people to ensure that his dream came to pass.He registered and started a company despite the financial constraints.Today, he is a successful and excellent business man living his dream.
Points:
1) He was from a poor background
2) He attended public schools,but he came out with a good WAEC result.
3) He wrote his Vision and constantly looked at it
4) He was determined to see dream come to pass
5) He worked hard, prepared, planned and partnered with people
6) Today, he is a Successful businessman
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Do you have a dream?
Have you written down your dream?
Are you working towards it?
Lessons: It is important to Write your vision.Your Vision is simply looking at the end of your dream from the beginning.
Yes You Can:
Dream
Write the dream and coin out your vision
Plan and work towards it coming to pass.
Gracias
He wanted to help and impact young people.He worked, prepared, planned and partnered with people to ensure that his dream came to pass.He registered and started a company despite the financial constraints.Today, he is a successful and excellent business man living his dream.
Points:
1) He was from a poor background
2) He attended public schools,but he came out with a good WAEC result.
3) He wrote his Vision and constantly looked at it
4) He was determined to see dream come to pass
5) He worked hard, prepared, planned and partnered with people
6) Today, he is a Successful businessman
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Do you have a dream?
Have you written down your dream?
Are you working towards it?
Lessons: It is important to Write your vision.Your Vision is simply looking at the end of your dream from the beginning.
Yes You Can:
Dream
Write the dream and coin out your vision
Plan and work towards it coming to pass.
Gracias
Wednesday, 30 January 2013
Celebration Of Life
I remember when I lost my dear big mummy.Its a day I will never forget, I was sad and had questions in my heart.I thank God for his Grace and Mercy. I miss her.
I was sad and shocked when I heard that my friend and senior colleague died, that was two years ago.He was a very handsome guy and also full of life.I can remember the first day I met him and how he smiled at me. I can remember how he used to tease me about being business conscious and ambitious.I miss him.
I remember watching the video and looking at the pictures of people being killed and slaughtered all over the country.I felt like I was there, the cries, the bloodshed, the groaning pain and the fire was too unbearable.They went through the terrible ordeals and they died.
Points:
1) I really cannot remember telling my dear big mummy how much I loved her and how caring she was.
2) I cannot remember hugging my dear big mummy and saying special thanks or been very grateful for making me learn Psalm 91 and teaching me the Word Of God.
3) I cannot remember telling my friend how his smile encouraged me.
4) I cannot remember telling my friend that he was handsome and he looked good
5) I cannot remember telling my friend how nice he was
Questions To Ask And Answer Yourself:
Do you love yourself?
Do you appreciate and celebrate yourself?
Who are the people in your life?
Do you Love and Care about people?
Have you taken out quality time to really appreciate them?
Lessons: You have one Life.Therefore, your life is important.No matter the limitations and challenges, please take out quality time to appreciate and celebrate people(family,friends,colleagues,employer/employee, etc).
The Truth Is, You Can:
Love People
Appreciate people
Care For People
Celebrate them
Please read,share and comment on 2alkaboutit daily.
I celebrate and appreciate you.
Gracias
I was sad and shocked when I heard that my friend and senior colleague died, that was two years ago.He was a very handsome guy and also full of life.I can remember the first day I met him and how he smiled at me. I can remember how he used to tease me about being business conscious and ambitious.I miss him.
I remember watching the video and looking at the pictures of people being killed and slaughtered all over the country.I felt like I was there, the cries, the bloodshed, the groaning pain and the fire was too unbearable.They went through the terrible ordeals and they died.
Points:
1) I really cannot remember telling my dear big mummy how much I loved her and how caring she was.
2) I cannot remember hugging my dear big mummy and saying special thanks or been very grateful for making me learn Psalm 91 and teaching me the Word Of God.
3) I cannot remember telling my friend how his smile encouraged me.
4) I cannot remember telling my friend that he was handsome and he looked good
5) I cannot remember telling my friend how nice he was
Questions To Ask And Answer Yourself:
Do you love yourself?
Do you appreciate and celebrate yourself?
Who are the people in your life?
Do you Love and Care about people?
Have you taken out quality time to really appreciate them?
Lessons: You have one Life.Therefore, your life is important.No matter the limitations and challenges, please take out quality time to appreciate and celebrate people(family,friends,colleagues,employer/employee, etc).
The Truth Is, You Can:
Love People
Appreciate people
Care For People
Celebrate them
Please read,share and comment on 2alkaboutit daily.
I celebrate and appreciate you.
Gracias
Tuesday, 29 January 2013
You Have One Life
You have One life:
To Bless and be Blessed
To Impact and be impacted
To Sow and Reap
To Be Healthy and Live
To Care and be cared for
To give Joy and be Joyful
To Break Limitations and be free
To give Hope and be Hopeful
To give information and be informed
To Give and be given
To Pray and be prayed for
To share fun and enjoy the fun
Think on these things
Full Story will be out tomorrow.
2alkabouit : Real People, Real Issues, Real Lessons
To Bless and be Blessed
To Impact and be impacted
To Sow and Reap
To Be Healthy and Live
To Care and be cared for
To give Joy and be Joyful
To Break Limitations and be free
To give Hope and be Hopeful
To give information and be informed
To Give and be given
To Pray and be prayed for
To share fun and enjoy the fun
Think on these things
Full Story will be out tomorrow.
2alkabouit : Real People, Real Issues, Real Lessons
Monday, 28 January 2013
Hope For All
I want to share the story of a guy who had longterm challenges in his home,things were not going on well financially, a member of his family was sick, etc .Despite all these, he was always optimistic and excellent in all that he did.He always believed that thing things would become better.
I was told of a man whose wife had a deadly disease and her immune system was compromised.He decided to stay and care for his wife.She is now been managed properly.
I know of a woman that was pregnant, whose husband lost his business and other sources of livelihood.They had nothing to start from the beginning.She was advised by her family and friends to leave her husband.Her family members were willing to return her bride price back to her husband's family.She stood her ground and said, "No Situation Is Permanent". Today,the family is doing well.
Points:
1) People face challenges every day
2) The guy chose to be excellent despite his challenges
3) A husband decided to stay and care for his wife at the time of her illness
4) A wife decided to stay and support her husband during the time of lack,even when she was asked to leave the man.
Questions:
Are you facing challenges?
How are you handling them?
Are the decisions you are making during the challenging times, Right or Wrong?
Lessons:
You can be excellent and truthful in the time of lack.As a single person, develop your Character, especially during the time of trials. As a married person, make up your mind, that it is, "Till Death Do You Part".Develop your character, be loving and supportive to your spouse.
Remember, All Hope Is Not Lost.
It Is Not Over, Until It Is Over.
No Situation Is Permanent (depending on you)
Yes You Can:
Hope For The Best
Be An Excellent Person, No Matter The Situation
Be Supportive And Be Caring
Be A Person Of Good Character
More articles and lessons on: www.2alkaboutitblogspot.com
2alkaboutit: Real People, Real Issues, Real LessonsHope For All
I was told of a man whose wife had a deadly disease and her immune system was compromised.He decided to stay and care for his wife.She is now been managed properly.
I know of a woman that was pregnant, whose husband lost his business and other sources of livelihood.They had nothing to start from the beginning.She was advised by her family and friends to leave her husband.Her family members were willing to return her bride price back to her husband's family.She stood her ground and said, "No Situation Is Permanent". Today,the family is doing well.
Points:
1) People face challenges every day
2) The guy chose to be excellent despite his challenges
3) A husband decided to stay and care for his wife at the time of her illness
4) A wife decided to stay and support her husband during the time of lack,even when she was asked to leave the man.
Questions:
Are you facing challenges?
How are you handling them?
Are the decisions you are making during the challenging times, Right or Wrong?
Lessons:
You can be excellent and truthful in the time of lack.As a single person, develop your Character, especially during the time of trials. As a married person, make up your mind, that it is, "Till Death Do You Part".Develop your character, be loving and supportive to your spouse.
Remember, All Hope Is Not Lost.
It Is Not Over, Until It Is Over.
No Situation Is Permanent (depending on you)
Yes You Can:
Hope For The Best
Be An Excellent Person, No Matter The Situation
Be Supportive And Be Caring
Be A Person Of Good Character
More articles and lessons on: www.2alkaboutitblogspot.com
2alkaboutit: Real People, Real Issues, Real LessonsHope For All
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