Rapists Are The Culprits, Not Their Victims.

A rapist as defined by the Thesaurus dictionary, is someone who forces another to have sexual intercourse.

The rapist can either be a male or female. The act of rape can be done singly or as a group of people. The victim can be a child or an adult.

There are several factors that might lead to the terrible act of rape. They include:
1). Pornography
2). Anger
3). The desire for power
4). Sadism
5). Sexual gratification and
6). Evolutionary pressures

The act of rape is very terrible and the perpetrator needs to see a psychologist. Also, the rapist should be prosecuted and charged according to the laws of the land.

Most of the time, the victims of rape are scared and ashamed to tell anyone because of the stigma. Also, they might be blamed for the cause of the act of rape, due to improper dressing,location, etc.

Rape is a very terrible act. There is no reason or excuse for rape. If you have a problem as a rapist, seek help from a psychologist,work on your character (Self-discipline) and adhere to proper counsel or recommendation.

Stop the stigma against rape victims. Please your suggestions and contributions are welcome.

Please call: 08075304034

Gracias

Rape, A Terrible Act

The month of march has been fabulous, I have been writing on rape.A lot of people have written to me about their experiences and the aftermaths.I hate the act of rape, because it destroys the victim most of the time.

Rape can lead to the victim having:
1). Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
2). Depression
3). Self-injury/ self-harm
4). Substance abuse
5). Flashbacks
6). Sexually Transmitted Infections
7). Pregnancy
8). Borderline personality disorder
9). Stockholm syndrome ( the victim has emotional bonding with the abuser), etc.


There is no excuse for anyone to carry out the evil act of rape.Rapists need help and they should be charged according to the laws of the land.

The victims of rape need love, care and they need to visit a psychologist regularly.

Please let's stop the stigma against rape victims.They need our love and support.Let's protect our families, friends, neighbours and colleagues from rape.

Please join and support us in this campaign.
For more information,call :
08075304034

Gracias

Playboy, So What?

A young handsome man was known by people as a playboy.He was proud about it, and the ladies kept on flocking around him, but he told his friend on a particular day, how it all started.

He was from a wealthy home and his parents were never at home most of the time.He was practically raised by the househelp.He hardly saw his parents, they leave the house early in the morning and get back home late in the night when he will be asleep.

The househelp was a 27year old lady.She allowed him to watch any kind of movie, especially pornographic movies. She told him that they can practice what they watched and she would teach him what to do. He was just 7years old when he had his first sexual experience.

She taught him a lot and he enjoyed it.This continued until she got married and left the house. He started sleeping with girls in his class, but they were not experienced. He moved to sleeping with his seniors.This continued until he got to the university.

He enjoyed his fame and wealth. He did not care about anything else, he was enjoying himself.In his final year, he got very sick and they carried out HIV test on him and he was positive.He felt the world crashing at his feet. He blamed his parents for been too busy, the househelp for the exposure to sex and himself for not seeking help.

Points:

1) He had his first sexual experience with the househelp at the age of 7.

2) His sexual appetite grew and when the househelp left, he started sleeping with different girls.

Questions To Ask Yourself:

Are you been influenced by your past?

What efforts are you taking to become better?

Lessons: We are from different backgrounds and this might influence our actions.We should avoid the same mistakes our
parents made.We have to do this by taking conscious efforts.

A child exposed to sex and its vices affects ones life.The truth is you can choose to make its impact positive or negative, if its negative, seek good and proper counsel.

Remember, there is no challenge that you cannot overcome.The first step is for you to seek good counsel from a professional.

Gracias

Rape Expos'e 2

This is the story of a young girl who was raped from a tender age by her uncle, cousins and neighbour at different times.This happened because her parents were not always at home and she was left with them at different times.

This led to her having low self-esteem and her sexual urge increased. She started masturbating uncontrollably.Finally, she told her friend about her predictament and was advised to seek good counsel.She went for counselling, she was prayed with, encouraged and cared for. She stopped masturbating, but she was always scared of home.

Points:

She was raped by five different guys at different times, because her parents left her alone at home, most times.

Questions To Ask Yourself:

Are you in a compromising situation?

Are you willing to get help?

Lessons: Parents and guardians should protect their children or wards at all times.Every person that has been abused should go for good counsel.This would help to boost and restore the self-esteem.

Please, do not put yourself in a vulnerable position. No matter what happens or what has happened in the past, I want you to know that, Jesus Loves You.


Please Stop The Stigma Against Rape Victims.


Gracias

First Of All

Its the first day of the third month of the year 2013.Truely, time waits for no man.As we begin this new month, I would like us to evaluate the past two months , stating how well you have reached your goals.

Don't be scared to go for your dreams.I know that this can be hard sometimes, but I want you to know that you are the best.I encourage you today to turn on the switch to your power source.

First Of All;

Discover Who You Are (your likes, dislikes, hobbies, etc)

Write Your Vision ( if you have one, re-evaluate regularly)

Plan: work out strategies that will make the Vision be fulfilled

Prepare: Read books,listen to messages,research, communicate with your mentor, attend life-changing seminars, etc.

Be Persistent

Be Prayerful


I would encourage you to listen to Jimi Tewe a career success catalyst, as he speaks on, Being An Outstanding Person.

Click on this link and listen now:
http://hu.lk/pnihdda6jz0g

Gracias

Rape Expose'

I was at a meeting with the executives of a popular group last year december and we discussed rape and its causes. The guys blamed the ladies for indecent dressing, but the ladies did not agree with that point.The ladies talked about guys that raped babies, children and fully dressed ladies. The meeting place was tense and a lot of anger was vented on the guys for that excuse of ladies dressing indecently.

Recently, I was discussing with some of my friends, the issue of rape came up and they just got angry.They said, "There Is No Excuse For A Man To Rape A Baby/Girl/Lady/Woman" and if they do, they have a "Psychiatric Problem".

These are the opinions of people. Please send me your own stories and opinion of a rape.You can also list out the causes of rape.

Please send me a mail: Tosinfatung@gmail.com

Please read, share and comment on our previous articles. You will find them interesting, informative and exciting.


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Gracias

Bottom Power

This is the story of a man that worked in a reputable organisation, but he was a flirt.He harassed ladies that were his subordinates and he got away with it, because the ladies were scared to lose their jobs. This continued for years and he was promoted regularly. This led to him having his own team.

On his team was a pretty lady with a lovely smile.He was attracted to her and he started assigning more jobs to her, so he could interact with her more. She did her work and she acted professionally with him. His advances at her now increased and he started calling and asking her out frequently.She was calm, but scared, because she knew that he had the power to make her life miserable or sack her.

She decided to record their conversations. He tried raping her when no one was in the office, but she escaped. He now got very angry at her, he snapped at her at everything she did, he gave her tons of work to do and he queried her.

She went to his superiors and made her complaints of harassment with the recordings as evidence.They suspended him indefinitely without pay and he could not be employed in other firms.

Points:

1) He was a flirt and he got away with it

2) He harrassed a female subordinate regularly that recorded their conversations

3) He was suspended indefinitely with no pay.

Questions To Ask Yourself:

Are you a flirt?

Can you control your emotions?

Do you think you can do something wrong and always get away with it?

Lessons: Men, its not every bottom that rolls that you look at and even if you do, please be responsible and take your eyes away.For every bad thing you are doing, there is always a day of reckoning.

The sad thing is that most times, men crash when they are doing excellently in their careers, thereby destroying all they have worked for.

You can be successful, but it takes "Character" to keep you there.

Therefore, work on your character, get help, read books and attend seminars that would help you become a better person.


Yes You Can:

Avoid bottom power

Work on your character

Become a better you


Gracias