This is the story of a lady who had a terrible past during her time in the university. She was involved in several destructive sexual relationships, club parties and drinking. During her final year, she became born-again and she turned a new leaf.
She now started considering marriage, she decided to go for a past boyfriend who was not responsible. She felt that was what she deserved.They fought regularly because their belief and moral systems were no longer the same, but she was very scared to break the relationship.
Finally, she knew that she would either be single, or get married to someone she would be happy with.She summed up courage, worked on her self-esteem and broke up with the guy.
She decided to stay single, but a good guy noticed her and started talking to her. She was not interested, because she felt he was too perfect for her.She finally accepted his friendship and they got married.
Points:
1) She had a terrible past
2) She became born-again and turned a new leaf
3) Her past limited her in making a right choice for a relationship
4) She later decided to work on her self-esteem and she married a good man
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Are you being limited by your past to embrace Love?
Are you working on your Self-esteem?
Are you scared to embrace true Love?
Lessons: It is sometimes hard to embrace true love, especially when you are from a dysfunctional home, abused and derailed relationship.
You deserve to Love and be Loved, no matter your past challenges.When you are about to make a choice, please choose someone that loves, respects and adores you.
Yes You Can:
Love
Be Loved
Embrace Love
Coming Soon:
Expos`e on rape,
Bottom power,
Oral sex, sweet or bitter?
And Many More.
Gracias.
Monday, 25 February 2013
Sunday, 24 February 2013
Why Go For Less?
This is the story of a guy who was in a relationship with a lady who was cheating on him. He actually knew she was cheating, but he was willing to stay in the relationship. He said, he loves her. People told him that he should end it, but he always defended her, saying that she supported his dreams and she cared for him when he was ill.He believed that she would change.
This is the story of a lady in a relationship with a guy that beats her, even in public. She always goes back to apologise to the guy, because she claims that they are in Love.
Points:
They both have an disillusion of what love is.
Questions:
What kind of relationship are you in?
Are you truely in love?
Are you blinded by lust?
Are you limited by your past experiences?
Are you hoping to change the character of your partner?
What are you scared of in a relationship?
Lessons: It is good to be in love, but its very wrong for you to be in a deceitful, abusive and destructive relationship. You cannot really change a person.The end result might not be pleasant.
It is not right for you to be in a relationship where you are been abused, bruised, embarrased, belittled, etc.
Yes, you deserve better. You deserve to be loved, cherished and treated appropriately. No one should make you feel worthless, because you are truely precious.
There is no other person that can be like you in everything.You are Unique, that's how God created you. You are just perfect in shape and size.
All you need, is to work and increase your knowledge and capacity.Strive to be a person of impact. This is what you will attract to yourself and you will be glad that you did.
To know what love is, please read our previous articles.
Yes You Can:
Love
Be Loved
Be Happy
Be a person of Impact
Gracias
This is the story of a lady in a relationship with a guy that beats her, even in public. She always goes back to apologise to the guy, because she claims that they are in Love.
Points:
They both have an disillusion of what love is.
Questions:
What kind of relationship are you in?
Are you truely in love?
Are you blinded by lust?
Are you limited by your past experiences?
Are you hoping to change the character of your partner?
What are you scared of in a relationship?
Lessons: It is good to be in love, but its very wrong for you to be in a deceitful, abusive and destructive relationship. You cannot really change a person.The end result might not be pleasant.
It is not right for you to be in a relationship where you are been abused, bruised, embarrased, belittled, etc.
Yes, you deserve better. You deserve to be loved, cherished and treated appropriately. No one should make you feel worthless, because you are truely precious.
There is no other person that can be like you in everything.You are Unique, that's how God created you. You are just perfect in shape and size.
All you need, is to work and increase your knowledge and capacity.Strive to be a person of impact. This is what you will attract to yourself and you will be glad that you did.
To know what love is, please read our previous articles.
Yes You Can:
Love
Be Loved
Be Happy
Be a person of Impact
Gracias
Friday, 22 February 2013
Parents And Parents To Be...
You Need To Read This Now...
I speak to @ least 200 secondary school students almost every week.One thing that fascinates me about these children is that they give the sarcastic and unconcerned attitude on the first meeting, but after speaking to them, they open up to me immediately.
Therefore, based on my experience, I am giving you this advice.
Please parents, love your children unconditionally, speak positive words to them "Everyday". Yes, Everyday and discipline them when necessary.
I need you to please create time for your children.Let them know that they can talk and look up to you.
Please show and teach your children parts of their bodies, especially their genitals. Tell them not to allow anyone to touch it and if anyone tries to do so or does so against their will they should come home to tell you. But it takes constant show of love and care before your child opens up to you. You can't be emotionally distant from your child and expect them to talk to you about such things.
Protect these children, by not leaving them alone or in unsafe hands, even the trusted person may be the culprit and bear in mind that a man may molest a boy and a woman may molest a girl. A large number of rape cases start from the home and the rapist may be of any age they don't have to be adults. It may be the father,brother,sister,other family members, friends, neigbours etc.
Sometimes it starts innocently. It may just have been that the innocent child and the rapist were playing and one thing just led to another, the rapist may not even have intended to do so and the rape might continue for years.
I know its not as easy as it sounds, but you need to put in a lot of effort.God expects that much from you.
I am writing and pleading to you based on my experiences with children weekly. They are very vulnerable and looking at the root of their problems, its majorly from the home, from under your roof.
These children just want love, care, attention etc.If you don't give it to them, others will do it for you, whether positively or negatively.
Please comment and share.
2alkaboutit Parent's Forum Coming Up Soon.
For More Information, Log On Everyday To:
www.2alkaboutit.blogspot.com
Pharmacist Tosin Fatungase
290bdc5e
@oluwatosinfatun
Gracias
I speak to @ least 200 secondary school students almost every week.One thing that fascinates me about these children is that they give the sarcastic and unconcerned attitude on the first meeting, but after speaking to them, they open up to me immediately.
Therefore, based on my experience, I am giving you this advice.
Please parents, love your children unconditionally, speak positive words to them "Everyday". Yes, Everyday and discipline them when necessary.
I need you to please create time for your children.Let them know that they can talk and look up to you.
Please show and teach your children parts of their bodies, especially their genitals. Tell them not to allow anyone to touch it and if anyone tries to do so or does so against their will they should come home to tell you. But it takes constant show of love and care before your child opens up to you. You can't be emotionally distant from your child and expect them to talk to you about such things.
Protect these children, by not leaving them alone or in unsafe hands, even the trusted person may be the culprit and bear in mind that a man may molest a boy and a woman may molest a girl. A large number of rape cases start from the home and the rapist may be of any age they don't have to be adults. It may be the father,brother,sister,other family members, friends, neigbours etc.
Sometimes it starts innocently. It may just have been that the innocent child and the rapist were playing and one thing just led to another, the rapist may not even have intended to do so and the rape might continue for years.
I know its not as easy as it sounds, but you need to put in a lot of effort.God expects that much from you.
I am writing and pleading to you based on my experiences with children weekly. They are very vulnerable and looking at the root of their problems, its majorly from the home, from under your roof.
These children just want love, care, attention etc.If you don't give it to them, others will do it for you, whether positively or negatively.
Please comment and share.
2alkaboutit Parent's Forum Coming Up Soon.
For More Information, Log On Everyday To:
www.2alkaboutit.blogspot.com
Pharmacist Tosin Fatungase
290bdc5e
@oluwatosinfatun
Gracias
Wednesday, 20 February 2013
Love Is An Action Word
I have heard of ladies beaten by their boyfriends and these ladies go back to apologise.They give excuses for their boyfriends and say the beating is out of love.
I have also heard of guys taking ladies for granted.They cheat openly and they are proud of it.
I have heard of ladies who end their relationship to go out with elderly wealthy men.
Points:
The common thing with the three stories is that actions were taken
Questions To Ask Yourself:
What do you call Love?
Are you showing Love?
Are you been Loved?
Lessons:Love is an action word.Some of us have the wrong meaning of love, this might be due to personal experiences from home, family, friends, environment, etc.
To Love and be loved truthfully is possible.Do not go below standards, no matter your past.Seek and be the best.The choice is yours.You need to seek help from any addiction, wrong emotions, etc.
You can read our previous articles on what love is.
Yes You Can:
Love
Be Loved
Be The Best
Seek The Best
Gracias
I have also heard of guys taking ladies for granted.They cheat openly and they are proud of it.
I have heard of ladies who end their relationship to go out with elderly wealthy men.
Points:
The common thing with the three stories is that actions were taken
Questions To Ask Yourself:
What do you call Love?
Are you showing Love?
Are you been Loved?
Lessons:Love is an action word.Some of us have the wrong meaning of love, this might be due to personal experiences from home, family, friends, environment, etc.
To Love and be loved truthfully is possible.Do not go below standards, no matter your past.Seek and be the best.The choice is yours.You need to seek help from any addiction, wrong emotions, etc.
You can read our previous articles on what love is.
Yes You Can:
Love
Be Loved
Be The Best
Seek The Best
Gracias
Big Tummy Is Not A Sign Of Wealth
It is common to see women and especially men with big tummy these days. This is sometimes seen as a sign of wealth and success, but caution should be taken as it is rather a sign poor health. Big tummy can be:
Hereditary
Due to alcohol Intake
Due to eating food late at night
Due to eating heavy foods especially at night
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Do you have a big tummy?
Do you eat heavy meals?
Do you eat heavy meals at night?
Lessons: Try to reduce and preferably stop alcohol intake. Don't eat too much food at once especially late at night. A light meal is preferable at night, while a heavy meal could be taken during the day so that the energy can be used up and excess fat is not retained in the body.
Simply put, eat well and live well because health is wealth and not a big tummy! Please Share.
Gracias
Written By: Pharmacists Tosin Fatungase And Ofure Odigwe
Follow: @oluwatosinfatun
Hereditary
Due to alcohol Intake
Due to eating food late at night
Due to eating heavy foods especially at night
Questions To Ask Yourself:
Do you have a big tummy?
Do you eat heavy meals?
Do you eat heavy meals at night?
Lessons: Try to reduce and preferably stop alcohol intake. Don't eat too much food at once especially late at night. A light meal is preferable at night, while a heavy meal could be taken during the day so that the energy can be used up and excess fat is not retained in the body.
Simply put, eat well and live well because health is wealth and not a big tummy! Please Share.
Gracias
Written By: Pharmacists Tosin Fatungase And Ofure Odigwe
Follow: @oluwatosinfatun
Sunday, 17 February 2013
Love Is
Love is for matured people that are responsible for their actions.It should be taken very seriously.
Love can bring familes together, settle dispute among nations and can strengthen countries.
Love Is The Greatest.
Gracias
Love can bring familes together, settle dispute among nations and can strengthen countries.
Love Is The Greatest.
Gracias
Saturday, 16 February 2013
What Love Is
This month, I have written on the topic, Love and its charcteristics, using different stories of people.Its been a beautiful month, everyone loves Love.Please never forget what love is.Love Is Always Positive And Never Negative.This is just to remind us what love is.
Points:
LOVE
Is Patient and Kind
Is Not jealous or boastful or proud or rude
It does not demand its own way
Not irritable and it keeps no record of being wronged
It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out
Never gives up
Never loses faith
Is always hopeful
Endures through every circumstance
Three things will last forever, Faith,Hope and Love- and the greatest of these is Love
Gracias
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