Friday, 4 October 2013

HOW TO PREVENT YOUR CHILD FROM BEING A TERRORIST




With the increase in terrorism all over world, you find that the attackers are usually young people. These questions now come to mind,

Who are these people?

How are they recruited?

What is their motivation?

Who are the people funding terrorism? &

Many more…

In simple terms, terrorists are people that carry out terror or agents of terrorism. They are people that believe in a seemingly positive cause, they fight for their “right” by harming and inflicting pain on other people outside of their sect.

The people that have been recruited will be people that had the need to be accepted and wanted to be part of a cause that they believe in. Even though, some of the people recruited were forced against their own will.

In Syria, a young boy of 13 years of age can be seen carrying weapons and killing people with it. Definitely, there will be people that would have recruited and trained him to believe in their vision and carry out the evil acts. 

At what point does a child make the decision to be good or bad. It takes a lot of consideration by the child either to act right or wrongly.

To prevent your child from being a terrorist, as a teen and family motivational speaker, I advise that:

- You should show love to your children always

- Always pray for your child

- Spend time with your child

- Speak in a loving manner to your child

- Discipline and correct with love

- Let your child know that you are open to listen, no matter the challenge

- Be a good example to the child

- Inform, inspire and motivate your child to be the best.

If only our parents can do these things, am sure the upcoming generation will be better.

I speak &

I believe in the future leaders

Oluwatosin Fatungase ( Pharm)
Teen & Family Motivational Speaker
@oluwatosinfatun





Tuesday, 24 September 2013

YOUR DECISION




With so much crisis going on all over the world, it is important to know that your choices and decisions affect you and other people directly or indirectly. For example, the siege that has been going on in Kenya for over three days, bombing of a church in Pakistan, random shooting at a naval yard in the U.S, shows that the future of the world is at stake.

Monday, 16 September 2013

Thank God It's Monday By Jimi Tewe



TOO BUSY TO MAKE PROGRESS

Welcome to a new week.

It always amazes me when I ask people I speak to or coach, to get some books to read and they say they cannot because they are too busy.

It also amazes me when I recommend events that are capacity-building focused to some folks and they tell me they are too busy to attend.

Friday, 13 September 2013

YOUR I .D CARD, YOUR PASS




I was at the police station during the week as an escort to bail someone out. First of all, the person to be bailed was at fault, he purchased goods and there was no form of identification with him when the police men intercepted him and did a search of him and his goods.. The police men interrogated him for a very long time and we had to plead for his lack of knowledge concerning the matter .

Tuesday, 10 September 2013

What Are Your Motives?




The year is almost running to an end, but you might not have been able to fulfill your plans, don’t worry; you can still make it happen.

I want to bring your attention to the word ‘’ MOTIVE’’. It is defined by Merriam-webster dictionary as:

Wednesday, 4 September 2013

PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE 1








                          
 As a single lady, have you ever thought about the kind of attributes you would want the wife of your future son to have? Her level of education, her poise and carriage, behavior, habits and so on. Or if it is too difficult to think that far into your future, what about your beloved brothers and male cousins. Having prepared a checklist, do you think you as a person will pass if you are very objective without giving any excuse?

What Do You Give?


I thought about it this morning, I know that some people complain about reasons why they don’t give. There are some reasons not to give, misuse of funds by people or organizations  You can give to a cause through NGOs, religious organizations, individuals, etc. . In spite of this, you should not be deterred from giving.